{"id":6317,"date":"2020-05-07T15:53:23","date_gmt":"2020-05-07T19:53:23","guid":{"rendered":"\/pittsburgh\/?p=6317"},"modified":"2024-01-29T10:35:23","modified_gmt":"2024-01-29T15:35:23","slug":"caregiver-monroeville-pa-communicating-properly-while-stressed-is-crucial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/extendedfamilycare.com\/pittsburgh\/blog\/2020\/05\/07\/caregiver-monroeville-pa-communicating-properly-while-stressed-is-crucial\/","title":{"rendered":"Communicating Properly While Stressed Is Crucial"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As a caregiver you\u2019re going to experience a lot of <em><strong>stress<\/strong><\/em>. You\u2019re also going to be expected to maintain communications with all sorts of people while dealing with that stress. This is going to make for some interesting conversations. If you\u2019re not careful, those conversations can become arguments quickly. How you handle them is important.<\/p>\n Caregiver <a class=\"wpil_keyword_link\" href=\"https:\/\/extendedfamilycare.com\/pittsburgh\/home-care-in-monroeville-pennsylvania\/\"   title=\"Monroeville\" data-wpil-keyword-link=\"linked\"  data-wpil-monitor-id=\"26\">Monroeville<\/a> PA &#8211; Communicating Properly While Stressed Is Crucial\n<p><em><strong>Stick to What You\u2019re Talking about Right Now<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re letting the conversation bounce around to other topics, you\u2019ll be there all day. Epic arguments are made and lost based on how many different topics you choose to cover. Stick to what you\u2019re talking about right now, and only to that topic. If someone wants to discuss something else, you can agree to do so at a different time and when everyone is in a better space.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Listen More than You Talk<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>You might think it\u2019s more important to have your say, especially if you\u2019re convinced you\u2019re the one who is right. But if you listen more than you talk, you might just find that there\u2019s more going on than you realize. Sometimes people just want to feel heard and that alone can be enough to de-escalate the argument back to a simple conversation.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Reframe Some of What You\u2019re Saying<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re tired, stressed, and having a conversation you don\u2019t want to have, you might find that you start to use words like \u201calways\u201d and \u201cnever.\u201d Or you might use accusatory tones to try to get your point across. While that might make you feel better right there in the moment, it\u2019s not going to do you much good in the long run. Reframe some of what you\u2019re planning to say so that it isn\u2019t as incendiary.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Find a Compromise or Take a Break<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>At some point you\u2019re going to need to either come to some sort of compromise or take a break from the conversation. You can\u2019t keep hammering away at a topic with no end in sight. That doesn\u2019t do you or the other person any good. This doesn\u2019t have to be about putting a winning check mark in your column. If neither of you are getting anywhere, table the discussion until you\u2019re both in a better place.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re under a great deal of stress, even simple conversations can become massive undertakings. If you\u2019re not careful, something that could have been handled easily can escalate out of control. The last thing that you want to do as a caregiver is to create strife where none has to exist.<\/p>\n<h5><strong>If you or a loved one are considering <span style=\"background-color: #ffcc99;color: #993300\"><em><a style=\"background-color: #ffcc99;color: #993300\" href=\"\/pittsburgh\/monroeville\/\">Caregiver Services in Monroeville PA<\/a><\/em><\/span>, please call and talk to the caring staff at Extended Family Care of Pittsburgh at (412) 693-6009. We will answer all of your questions.<\/strong><\/h5>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Caregiver Monroeville PA-How you communicate as a caregiver matters, especially when you\u2019re under a great deal of stress yourself. Here are some tips.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":6318,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198,200],"tags":[199],"class_list":["post-6317","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-caregiver-monroeville-pa","category-stress","tag-caregiver-monroeville-pa"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/extendedfamilycare.com\/pittsburgh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6317","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/extendedfamilycare.com\/pittsburgh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/extendedfamilycare.com\/pittsburgh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/extendedfamilycare.com\/pittsburgh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/extendedfamilycare.com\/pittsburgh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6317"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/extendedfamilycare.com\/pittsburgh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6317\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13401,"href":"https:\/\/extendedfamilycare.com\/pittsburgh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6317\/revisions\/13401"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/extendedfamilycare.com\/pittsburgh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6318"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/extendedfamilycare.com\/pittsburgh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6317"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/extendedfamilycare.com\/pittsburgh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6317"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/extendedfamilycare.com\/pittsburgh\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6317"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}